Grateful notes from June and July

• I have a good job. 
• I bought my very first diamond earrings
• My team in the office is cool. 
• My Family 
• Grace and Rose
• That I have a condo 
• I can eat everyday
• Fauzi
•  Water
• Clouds
• AC
• Malls
•  Cottonbuds
• Oatmeal
• Anti-itch products
• Love 
• Friends
• Grandmothers
• Relatives 
• The sky
• Dolpy

E.E. Cummings: I carry your heart with me

I carry your heart with me (I carry it in
my heart) I am never without it (anywhere
I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
I fear
no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet ) I want
no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart)

Keep yourself Motivated!

Here are 14 quick strategies to get and keep yourself motivated:

1. Condition your mind. Train yourself to think positive thoughts while avoiding negative thoughts.

2. Condition your body. It takes physical energy to take action.  Get your food and exercise budget in place and follow it like a business plan.

3. Avoid negative people. They drain your energy and waste your time, so hanging with them is like shooting yourself in the foot.

4. Seek out the similarly motivated. Their positive energy will rub off on you and you can imitate their success strategies.

5. Have goals–but remain flexible. No plan should be cast in concrete, lest it become more important than achieving the goal.

6. Act with a higher purpose.  Any activity or action that doesn’t serve your higher goal is wasted effort--and should be avoided.

7. Take responsibility for your own results. If you blame (or credit) luck, fate or divine intervention, you’ll always have an excuse.

8. Stretch past your limits on a daily basis. Walking the old, familiar paths is how you grow old. Stretching makes you grow and evolve.

9. Don't wait for perfection; do it now! Perfectionists are the losers in the game of life.  Strive for excellence rather than the unachievable.

10. Celebrate your failures. Your most important lessons in life will come from what you don't achieve. Take time to understand where you fell short.

11. Don’t take success too seriously. Success can breed tomorrow's failure if you use it as an excuse to become complacent.

12. Avoid weak goals.  Goals are the soul of achievement, so never begin them with "I'll try ..."  Always start with "I will" or "I must."

13. Treat inaction as the only real failure.  If you don’t take action, you fail by default and can't even learn from the experience.

14. Think before you speak.  Keep silent rather than express something that doesn’t serve your purpose.

The above is based on a conversation with Omar Periu, one of the world’s best (and best known) motivational speakers.

Dakota Skye Scene


I want to tell you that I like you.
But I can't tell you that, can I?
I want to tell you to forget about him.
He's a great guy, the best,
and he's my brother
in everything but blood,
and you two are good together,
but I still want to tell you
to tell him to fuck off
and to be with me.
I want to tell you
that since the moment I met you
I can't even get your face
out of my brain.
But I can't tell you that,
that all I want right now
in the world
is to take you away with me.
No him, no here, no this.
Just us.
If just for a day. You know?
But I can't tell you that.
I mean, you can't make me.
I mean, what kind
of a person would I be
if I went and told you
something like that?

May Appreciation

1. Be expatriated and earn big bucks and I cannot lie....hahaha
2. A good job. I don't have to wait for people in restaurants, or be a caregiver, or a shopkeeper. I call the shots. 
3. Not live in a place with a common room in another country. 
4. Awesome parents and siblings. 
5. Cool Girls: Grace and Rosie. 
6. Have a car and driver. 
7. Can travel. 

Stop feeling awkward, shy and inadequate. 

Why I'm grateful in April

1. My Mom and Dad
2. My Sister and Brother
3. My Grandma, Lulay
4. My Cousins
5. Books
6. Showers
7. Scrubs
8. Blow Dry People 
9. Beds
10. Traveling
11. Shopping 
12. Friends
13. Hip Hop
14. Tears

Why not be happy after a while...you get to a certain age where you prepare yourself for happiness and sometimes you forget to get happy. Be happy. 

G, if you feel that you're not where you're supposed to be don't worry the next turn you're going to take it could lead you where you want to go.